wishywashymermaid replied to your post “basically, this is fucking bizarre. he/him: what the fuck, is that…”
to me you look very specifically byron which is like.! how cute! and very androgynous to me
thanks!! oh man androgynous is a comfy adjective for me, i get a tiny bit like *swoon* when it is said about me. i think i will go to sleep but just know that gender is a pit and i will meet you in it
basically, this is fucking bizarre.
he/him: what the fuck, is that me, what the fuck; she/her: shitshitshit they saw through me, i fucked up
it’s an “i fucked up” v. “they fucked up” situation.
i don’t really try to look like x gender. except for not wearing cleavage-type shirts or … that is it. i wear earrings on occasion (the pronoun one is for special/safe occasions) and nail polish possibly more than i would at home. oh and i don’t wear hair clips for worry-reasons. maybe ill start.
from an outside perspective (aka one that is not through my own eyeballs) do i look like the weird nerd boys? do they think i’m one of them? (sometimes, i don’t entirely mind weirdnerdboys. some are friendly and not-worrisome)
but like when people think i’m a girl, ever, i feel like i’ve failed something. when people think im a boy i am just baffled. gender is so fucked up and i am opting out
i really want to vent about all of my professors thinking im a dude….. except cis friends will not respond in an adequate way and my nb neighbor will not have sympathy for me (and is… also finishing a paper rn. but i would not be surprised to hear “at least you get read as a dude” which like, fair, true, but it’s so weird and i must yell. blog time)
hey, so dear white people came out, only for some reason or another it’s not out in a lot of theaters. and it needs to be! so if it’s not in your theater or you suspect it’s not then please go here and demand it to be. it’s a very, very important movie and everyone in the world deserves the opportunity to watch it. thank you!!
I get nervous going to the comp sci department bc its typically filled with weird dudes, but well, I look like a weird dude. do they think im one of them???? does that make me more or less nervous
THIS IS A GAME I MADE! IT IS EXACTLY WHAT IT SOUNDS LIKE
it is very messy and sloppy because i made it very very quickly and also this is my first time doing something like this
it was strongly influenced by porpentine's incredible work in the same medium. THANK YOU PORPENTINE
please be aware it touches on abuse, suicide, and misgendering
i am very proud of it
okay that’s all
this game is so good and important
Oh my god guys, I am actually doing this. I can’t believe it. Please, please, please signal boost the shit outta this. I have been homeless on the streets and couch-surfing for the past 4 years, since I was 18yrs old and my parents choose religion over their child. This is my fucking ticket to freedom, something I have been dreaming of since the first time I attempted to run away from the abuse.
I have poured every last ounce of hope I’ve got left in my reserves for this. I haven’t looked forward to something more than a month in the future in years. I never envisioned myself living past 25, but my god in this moment I hope I can live past 50. I just… fuck. I’m so excited. :3
it’s adorable, in a kinna maternal way but also just like, IT’S NICE THAT LIN HAS A FRIEND. I assume and hope that she’s supposed to get on well with the rest of the police lol, but within Team Avatar it’s nice to have someone she’d get along with because their normally offputting personalities work together. It’s nice for her to be connected to someone in team avatar who isn’t Tenzin. I hope they expand on it. On the more meta side of things it’s also cool having a young guy who’s mentor is an older woman.
also mako doin the look last ep was great.
Watch Laverne Cox Presents: The T Word free online. Actress and trans advocate Laverne Cox presents an eye-opening documentary about seven brave transgender youth who are showing the world what it means to defy expectations and live their lives - and truth - as authentically as possible.
In case you missed it last night, The T Word is free to watch online! There’s a pretty great representation of trans folks of color and really goes into the traumas and violence our communities face.
ahhh oh my gosh yay i’m so glad I can watch it now! : D